
One challenging goal captured my desire to achieve. Knowing it was not going to be easy I voiced my desire over dinner to my family. "I want to run a marathon in all 50 states!" Amazed, amused, astonished they encouraged me to pursue this desire with one request. "We want to go when you run Hawaii!" With their enthusiasm I began to set the plan into motion. I will do this before I reach the age of 50 (I was 47 at the time) with only 6 marathons completed.
In order to limit time away from home I began running states easiest to be gone for only 1 night. Weekends when I wasn't running I was still at home alone as everyone had plans. I wasn't to be missed much nor miss many of their activities. I would get this done quickly not taking more time away. During the weekdays I was home being wife and mom. I promised to never be gone on their birthdays. Planning of logistics was more difficult than running 26.2 in each state. The kids began to identify me with "Where's Waldo?" They grasped geography better while identifying each state and checking it off as I completed a marathon.
As states were being checked off I was exhausted physically as well as emotionally. I wrestled with struggles of selfishness taking time to accomplish this. I tried to turn a deaf ear to the negative comments. I was determined to focus on positives. This was beneficial to my family as our lifestyles became healthier. By exhibiting a proactive lifestyle,setting a goal, exhibiting strength, independence, courage, dedication and perseverance I led by example character traits that I see in my children.
I've not only accomplished my goal of a marathon in all 50 states (With my family joining me in Hawaii this past June!) but lowered my cholesterol without medication. Now I am determined to giveback to the running community volunteering more and currently coaching runners for Team Rio in Nashville, TN who are raising money for Big Brothers/Big Sisters charity running the country Music Marathon. My journey has not ended and I couldn't be happier for all the valuable moments, lessons and friendships made along the way. I feel truly blessed.
-Diane-

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